My First Guatemalan Christmas

Scan 5My first Guatemalan Christmas loomed in front of me, as I pondered how the orphanage would celebrate this special time. I had many questions about the cultural traditions and thought of my favorites in the States. Should I introduce some US traditions, or should we follow the Guatemalan ways? Perhaps a blend of the two would make this time memorable for everyone. I started asking our workers about their ideas for Christmas and learned that Guatemalans observed this time without the pomp and circumstance seen in the US. Decisions needed to be made and soon.

In 2002, Christmas displays, decorations, and the traditional items were rarely found for sale. A few stores sold artificial trees and some decorations, but it was nothing like the choices available in the States. That didn’t deter me because creative people surrounded me, and we could make what we needed.

I bought a five-foot artificial tree and some ornaments, with plans in my head flowing. My excitement increased because nobody in the orphanage had ever displayed a Christmas tree. This would be their first, and they could hardly conceal their anticipation when I set the tree in the living room.

While learning more about Guatemalan Christmas traditions, I found that the focus revolved around a church service on Christmas Eve, a feast of tamales and chuchitos, and fireworks. What, no Christmas gifts? Gift giving didn’t dominate this holiday, and perhaps the money went toward the traditional fireworks used for the festivities.

On the twenty-third, after making the necessary purchases, the cook informed me that we should start preparing the tamales and chuchitos. “Mama Carroll, it takes a long time to make each ingredient.” Having knowledge about cooking made me wonder how something so simple-looking took two days.

“Okay, I’m willing to help any way I can,” I told the cook. I didn’t realize that some of the cooking had to be done the old-fashioned way—over a fire outside. An enormous pot of corn kernels and another of rice stood boiling above the wood fires on the patio. Inside the house simmered garlic, onion, tomatoes, sesame seeds, and pumpkin seeds forming a lovely red sauce that created a mouth-watering smell. I wanted to learn how to make tamales and chuchitos, but I had to learn in person because these ladies used the “pinch of this and a handful of that” method. At the end of the day, ninety tamales snuggly wrapped in banana leaves sat in a huge pot ready to cook over the fire Christmas Eve. A repeat of this day followed on the next to make the chuchitos. Instead of singing, “Chestnuts roasting on an open fire,” we would be singing “tamales and chuchitos.”

Ponche, which is a hot drink made from diced fruits, sugar, and spices, added to the delicious foods. After my first cup of this, I couldn’t get my fill, and it wasn’t even Christmas Eve. The cook indulged me by giving me a thumbs up when I went for refills.

A Guatemalan worker spread pine needles on all the floors and patio of the house. The piney scent launched me into the memories of the fresh mountain pine trees we decorated in Montana. I felt a tug in my heart as I thought of home in the states and my family. I would miss being with them. When I slowed down long enough to look at the tree, decorations, and lights, and then smell the aromas from the kitchen, I thanked the Lord for giving us the opportunity to celebrate His birthday in such a marvelous way. We had combined traditions, at the urging of my Guatemalan family, and I felt pleased to see the happiness in everyone’s eyes.

At 8:30 p.m. the feast began, and we gobbled down two days’ worth of hard work. Firecrackers sounded like continuous pistol shots all day long, but at midnight, the world exploded. Above Guatemala City, we could see fireworks from horizon to horizon. The sky lit up with colorful sparkles of light as the sound of bombs dropping echoed in the valley. Of course, we had to add our own combination of color and sound. The deafening noise and thick smoke didn’t distract from the love Guatemalans have for fireworks. A required firework in this celebration is a long rope of connected firecrackers that rapid fire from one end to the other for five to ten minutes, the longer the better. During this racket, people hug and greet one another.

When it quieted, and the smoke drifted off, we filed back into the house for the next phase of the celebration. Presents!

“Maria* why are you crying?” I inquired.

“Because I’ve never had a Christmas gift before,” she answered as she pulled off pieces of tape and carefully folded the paper for safe keeping. With moist eyes and a shy grin, she held up a journal for the year. I received a typical white top called a huipil with lovely purple embroidered flowers around the neckline. The girls had heard my hints. Everyone agreed that presents would be part of the orphanage’s tradition.

With another cup of ponche and some apple pie, we watched a drama on TV on the birth of Christ. At 3:00 a.m. my body dropped in bed. I thanked the Lord again for the family He’d given me and the love I felt as we carried out a mixture of traditions for my first Guatemalan Christmas. He put me in a unique family when I couldn’t be with my own. The loneliness I expected didn’t exist, because I lived with people who shared God’s love.

*Name has been changed.

Dear Faithful Blog Post Readers

B4660366-920F-4D5C-8605-84ACE4103DEADecember is a super busy time for everyone, and I will be visiting family in the States so I have put www.livingundertheshadowofhiswings.com blog on hold until January. I thank all of you for your words of encouragement throughout the year about the stories I’ve shared from my journal. It has been a great journey for me as I saw how many details of things I’d forgotten. I relived them as I shared with you many deeply touching episodes in my life here at Shadow of His Wings Inc. I look forward to next month with more to come.

May you all feel the love and giving spirit that is so prevalent during this great time of celebrating the birth of Jesus Christ.

The Royal Visit: Part 2

The day before the royal visit, the presidential security team came from Guatemala City with their dogs. This activity had the kids’ attention, and they watched every movement of the dogs and the officers. The security team went into every room of every building on the property. I didn’t know what they were looking for, and I didn’t ask any questions. The officer in charge gave us a rundown of their expectations of us. We needed to honor immediately any request for unlocking or opening any rooms or items. Nobody was allowed on the property except those of us listed on a document held by the security team. I worried about the Guatemalan custom of inviting family and friends to special occasions. Thankfully, Joanne addressed the situation and told our people that this would not be allowed for Wendy Berger’s visit. We declared to the head officer that we would follow everything to the letter.

The next day, we anxiously awaited for Wendy Berger’s arrival, and I think everyone’s stomach was tied in knots. Would I remember what I needed to say? Lord, help us do all of this right and enjoy a great experience.

“Here come the cars!” our guard shouted as he opened the gate.

All thirteen SUVs entered through our gate and drove to the canopy we had set up for our guests. Joanne, our social worker, and I received the smiling First Lady. She conveyed a message of humility with her softly spoken words of greeting. My heart raced, because I knew she would watch all of us closely, and I wanted her to be impressed by our children.

Presentation:WendyBergerWhile standing in the shade of the canopy, more introductions were made with the houseparents and staff. Then Joanne presented our vision for our organization and the plans we desired for the children. One of our girls gave a welcome and shared her testimony about her life at Shadow. Next, the girls demonstrated their gymnastic abilities by doing a presentation from a previous “state” competition. Lord, let these children see that they are so important that the wife of the president has come to see them. I prayed that the kids would know the value that others see in them.

After the program, we were granted permission to take pictures. We also had enough time for the First Lady to mingle among the girls. She and her two companions moved from one girl to another, showing a warm interest that made all of the girls stand taller. Many girls had the opportunity to share their testimonies, their plans for their education, and their honest thoughts about the orphanage. I proudly watched them visit, with their heads up and eyes bright, as they confided in her.

The one and a half hours with the First Lady went by too quickly, but the impressions she left with all of us will remain in our hearts forever. Everyone will remember the day the president’s wife visited Shadow of His Wings Orphanage.

The Royal Visit

Most of the children who come through Shadow of His Wings Orphanage feel like rejects—unwanted and unloved. To be told you are a piece of trash and treated as such degrades your self-image. An incredible event at Shadow showed the kids that there are people in high places of authority who care about them. I remain amazed that it happened.

“Are you serious? Royalty is coming to Shadow?” I asked.

“Yes, she wants to come and see the Project and meet the kids. Her desire is to help organizations like ours, so she will come to get to know us better,” replied the social worker.

Wow, the wife of the president of Guatemala wants to come here! My mind could hardly take it in. How many hundreds of orphanages exist in this country, and she plans to visit us? I knew the kids would be ecstatic when they heard the news. The idea made my heart flutter. For such a visit, there needed to be a royal welcome, and we needed plans to show how our orphanage operated. Questions flew in my head. How do we entertain such an important person? Could we be close to her during our visit? How did she pick us?

Our social worker explained how we got chosen. A friend of the Project, who worked in a government office, had contacts with people working with the First Lady. While her husband held the office of president, Wendy Berger desired to help the poor and to work with organizations committed to serving the people of Guatemala. The friend heard that the president’s wife would be visiting orphanages and suggested Shadow of His Wings Orphanage. Those in charge of these visits added our name to the list, and Wendy Berger selected our orphanage. During her visits to the orphanages, she wanted to ascertain the pertinent needs and decide how best to assist these non-profit associations.

Preparations began in a hurry. When we told the kids the news, they blankly stared for a few seconds, and then everyone talked at once. “The president is coming?” “No, his wife is coming, and her name is Wendy Berger.” “Will we get to talk to her?” “I think so.” “No, they’ll have guards around her.” From that moment on, every home buzzed with anticipation.

The excitement in us adults climbed as high as in the children. We wanted to put out the welcome mat to honor the First Lady for what she represented and for her acts of goodwill. To me, I saw it as an opportunity for our kids to learn how important they were in the eyes of many. Their lives meant something to people of importance, and these people wanted to invest in them because they had value.

With plans in hand and dust flying everywhere, every breathing body went into action for this royal visit.